Constant Comparison Doesn’t Do Us Any Good
We live in a world of constant comparison that only seems to emphasize our self-esteem or alternatively drown it in incomprehensible depths.
Someone will always lose in the comparison, and someone will always survive as the winner. That is not a positive thing at all. Not even to the person who will eventually win the torque. Any kind of comparison, a comparison of yourself to others or when others compare you, takes something out of your life and doesn’t benefit anyone in any way.
We are not exact copies of anyone. Therefore, we must not compare ourselves to anyone. Each of us is unique and special. Comparing each other is a completely useless way of just trying to replicate our superiority, when in reality it’s just about difference.
You are unique!
Even though we are born to learn certain things (behavior, talking…) and copy the ways we walk and talk from our family, in reality, each of us is unique.
No one will ever be like you. Therefore, the comparison is completely useless. The comparison leads to the need to reward the person who ultimately wins the twist. This makes the other person think that shaping themselves to be like a winner is necessary.
This is completely impossible. He who loses the comparison, even if he has tried hard, will never be the same as another person. This only brings with it frustration, for he is never able to achieve what others demand of him. Or he himself demands of himself if the comparison comes from him.
It is important that we consider comparing ourselves to ourselves as well as to other people. For this is a real example of envy.
When we are jealous of someone, we want to be like them so we can achieve the same. But are you trying to be like them? Maybe it doesn’t make sense to travel a path that has once been trampled. Follow your own path. Don’t try to walk trails that don’t belong to you.
As you can see, comparison never brings with it good, only negative feelings. Even if the comparison does not come from envy, it can still arouse resentment towards another person, a person who is on the winning side.
Say goodbye to comparison forever
Now that you realize that comparison doesn’t bring anything good into your life, it’s important that you really stop doing that too. People around you are probably still trying to compare you to other people. Even within us, we tend to do this from time to time.
Whether the comparison comes from you or other people, it’s important to stop focusing too much on what weakens us and only pulls us backwards and not lets us forward.
Don’t look for the approval of others: by comparing yourself to others, you are trying to take care of how other people see you. That is why we often strive for the acceptance of others in everything we do. In addition, we feel insecure. We don’t know if we’re doing the right thing. We do not follow our own path. In reality, however, our own path brings with it one of the most amazing things about each other.
Don’t try to be admired or admired by others. It only feeds the ego. It’s best to find a source of inspiration for the person or thing that really helps you with your goal. Don’t admire someone just because you could do things exactly the same way he does.
No one is perfect: even if you look at some people as if they were perfect, however, that is simply not the case. It is only a reality that your mind is determined to create. No one is perfect, not even you. And that if what is the most beautiful testimony of perfection.
Now that you know the comparison’s annoyances, it ’s time to throw it in the trash, look ahead, and start being yourself without shyness. You have a unique and special personality. All you have to do is find it. When you finally get it out, you will immediately feel at home with yourself and you will no longer have to worry about comparison with other people. Trust yourself, be sure of yourself and who you are.
