I Will Love Despite The Distance

The distance is difficult for any relationship. It tests the relationship’s durability; will the relationship eventually last or not? But why do some people refuse to try long distance relationships? And why do some people do great in them?

When circumstances put a distance in a relationship, many couples differ. They make a decision right away, and don’t even consider the possibility of a long-distance relationship to overcome obstacles. Others, on the other hand, embark on an adventure of long-distance relationships to overcome the obstacles that stand in front of the relationship, which are anything but small.

Long distance relationships seem difficult

The distance always feels difficult if you do not have the connection required for the relationship to survive. In fact, every relationship would need the same connection to succeed. If you think about it more closely, the relationship will soon crumble without the right kind of connection. Maybe the relationship suffers from it too much or maybe it all ends before it even starts. But… why not give a long-term relationship a chance anyway?

There are many people who end up in long distance relationships because of their work. These relationships may or may not work. There is no single factor to the functioning of a relationship; rather, there are a number of factors. Long distance relationships often work for people who want to be in a relationship but at the same time need their independence. They also think the mental connection is important and know how to maintain it, even if the physical connection is limited.

Distance is an obstacle that seems great, especially if the relationship has not faced it before. People who survive the first stage try to adapt to the situation in one way or another and create mechanisms to facilitate it: night calls, letters, large doses of patience, etc.

However, if there is no end to the distance visible, the third step will make the obstacles much more difficult. Wounds that have already been born begin to lose hope for their healing, and eventually both sides slowly begin to give up. Therefore, it is important to set some date for when distance will no longer be an issue.

The distance should not be an obstacle

How do people succeed in long distance relationships? Is distance really an obstacle? In reality, we can have a lot of impact on the barriers we create. Also, distance is just one of the steps in a relationship that can be overcome and even enjoyed. If you ever find yourself in a similar situation, remember that there are things that will help you get over it:

• Stay connected : without contact, you will become real strangers to each other. Take advantage of all the technology that allows you to communicate on a daily basis. Talk to each other and share your fears, doubts and dreams. In short, keep in touch with someone important to you.
• Confidence : The distance can sometimes cause jealousy because you never know what your partner is actually doing. Therefore, it is important to trust the other, and discuss the state of your relationship. As you can see, communication plays a significant role in the success of a long distance relationship.
• Be flexible : just because your partner is far away doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t need space. So don’t get mad if you call him more than they call you, or if he doesn’t keep in touch with you as often as you call him. From time to time, obligations can take up our time and make it difficult to stay connected. If you want to avoid ridiculous quarrels, be flexible.

If you really want to, you can

Romantic relationships are not always so rosy. Like all other relationships, romantic relationships have their ups and downs. The biggest question is probably whether you are willing to give everything in your relationship and invest in working on it.

If both want the same, distance will not take over your relationship. Sure, it can be tricky, but didn’t anyone ever say it would be easy to get the things we wanted? Everything you want has its price and effort. What would we become if everything were always easy?

The most important things in life require the greatest effort. Don’t refuse a long-distance relationship just because you’re afraid it will fail. Who knows? In love, anything is possible.

Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Do you think they are too cumbersome to manage? Everyone has their own views and experiences of long-distance relationships. But we can all agree that with true love and the commitment of both parties,  no obstacle is too great in the way of love.