Let Everything Buckle At Its Own Pace, And Don’t Let Anything Stop It

Today, just let everything buckle, and don’t let anything stop it. Today, don’t let the ballast of adversity sink at you, stifling your hopes and wanting to live. Today, let go of everything that creates dark clouds in your sky, free yourself from what wipes a smile from your face and simply just move on…

We should put these simple principles into practice, not just today, but every single day. For every morning as we open our eyes to a new day, we think of the new challenges ahead and – just for a moment – we become convinced that we are forgetting how to be happy.

One of the biggest proponents of flow theory is psychologist Mihály Csikszentmihályi. As this award-winning author of “Flow – The Stream of Life: Studies of Happiness, When Everything Goes,” says, we waste too much of our psychic energy on insignificant stimuli. We live in a society surrounded by a flood of information so that our whole being is outwardly focused.

We have lost that awesome bond to ourselves where we simply just move on with the “waves of life” free and happy… Continue reading to find out more.

I give everything a buckle, I don’t let anything capture me

Everyone is in some way a prisoner of someone or something. For example, we may be influenced by the words of our fatalistic co-worker or what our partner expects of us, or we may worry that we will survive until the end of the day by meeting the goals we set ourselves… We hang so tightly in the jungle our vitality evaporates into the air like smoke disappearing from an open window.

An interesting study by Harvard University found that one of the most common causes of dissatisfaction is the so-called “Unstable mind”. We spend much of our time worrying about things that have already happened – or worse – have not yet materialized. This is one form of “captivity”. According to the author of the study, Dr. Daniel T. Gilbert, the wandering mind is an unhappy mind. The moment our brains move from the present moment to another, we cease to commit to happiness. We stop committing to ourselves.

Instead of being a prisoner of your unstable mind, and under the influence of other people’s “noise” and expectations, yesterday’s mistakes, and tomorrow’s fears, it’s time to “raise the anchor” and let everything buckle freely and not let anything stop it.

Let happiness flow

According to Mihály Csikszentmihály himself, happiness is not something that just happens or rises like the light of a lighthouse that guides ships to safety. Most often, it does not depend on external phenomena, but on our inner ability to create a truly quality life – our own “magic” or our ability to turn on the light of our inner beacon.

It’s about letting everything flow, letting yourself flow, and not running away. For when we allow the harmonious rhythm of our own lives to carry us forward, without shackles or external influences, only then will we find the door we did not notice before.

This is how you learn the “flown” key factors

It is important to understand that in order to allow everything to “flow” and nothing to come our way, we need, above all, a profound shift in consciousness. We can’t change much about what affects us negatively, but we can change the way they affect us. For example, if you have a guy who is always late, you may not get him to come on time, but you can arrange your own schedule so that you arrive on your own five minutes later.

Here are some other key factors to consider:

• Many people “delay” their luck over the weekend until they finally get to go on vacation or until they get promoted. Let’s make it clear that luck is not something that can be delayed and is not bought in a last minute offer from a travel agent.
• Our well-being lies in the so-called “In ideal experiences”. It’s the wind that caresses our skin as we walk, the hug of a child, the feeling when we start reading a new book, when we meet friends, etc. Don’t try to program your well-being, just let yourself go.

• It is also important to keep in mind that the best moments of our lives, on a case-by-case basis, are neither passive nor even stress-free. Sometimes facing adversity is also about “learning to let things flow,” because instead of being stuck like a rock on the seabed, we go forward like that seemingly fragile leaf that fights and survives dangerous currents. Such gains and achievements can also bring us happiness.

“The ability to let things flow” is in no way related to reaching the highest peaks or improving oneself a little more every day. It is simply presence and advancement in a balanced way, listening to conscience, free and straightforward, contented with inner peace that allows us to enjoy the things that are “here and now”.

So today, just let it all buckle and don’t let anything stop it.