Love Means Wanting To Be Together

Those who seek you with some ulterior motive do not deserve you. Their real interest is in what they get out of you, and not you as a person. In their minds, you are a means to an end, not an end in itself. They come up with a thousand and one reasons to get what they want and when they finally get it, you will only become the next person on their list. You deserve much better, you deserve true love. Love means wanting to be together.

Someone who truly loves you doesn’t need you but chooses you. He will choose you not only to use you to pursue his own interests, but to share his time and open his heart to you. His eyes and deeds reveal him. Sincere love and feelings are obvious and can be felt.

Let’s explore the difference between people who love you for their own good and those who truly love you.

There is no need or self-interest in true love

Where there is love, there is more than self-interest: there is shared interest. Instead of need, love gives us the will and desire to bend verbs into the plural. A person who truly loves you will choose you as you are and accept everything in you, the pros and cons. A person who truly loves you will try especially hard to love even your grievances.

After all, the kind of person who really cares about you doesn’t care about the time you call him or the numerous times you see each other. He is always there for you when you need him. He knows you and he knows that even if you smile, you may be falling apart inside you. His sole purpose is to help you put the pieces back in place.

A person who feels true love for you will show their feelings in small deeds without expecting anything in return. He is not motivated by the pursuit of his own interests, but by the satisfaction he feels when he makes you smile or hugs you. Even when you get angry, he tries to understand you despite the fact that he doesn’t think you’re always right. He puts your relationship above small disputes.

A person who truly loves you wants to increase your happiness.

A person who is motivated to pursue his or her own interests believes that giving always means receiving and he or she acts accordingly. He gives something, but reciprocally he expects to get something back. If you don’t answer him well, he will remind you and bring out everything he has done for you. It’s not love, it’s exploiting others to your advantage. A person who is with you for their own benefit is only disguising their selfishness and not hesitating to use mental blackmail to get what they want. It is important to be aware and keep your eyes open. It is the only way not to end up as a slave to his will and desires.

The person who gives you their time will give you a part of their life

The most beautiful gift anyone can give is to share their time with you. He will give you his minutes, hours and seconds and with it a part of his life. Those who love you know this very well.

Late night coffee, quick visits during your work breaks, a call, or a “good morning” message on Whatsapp… They are all acts that show affection and gratitude for those who carry them out.

A person who gives you their time will give you a part of their life just because they love you without expecting anything in return. He does it because he wants to and because you are a priority in his order of priority as well as the people he cares about. One minute is enough to tell you that you are important to him. Even a few seconds may be enough to leave a permanent mark on your heart if those seconds are filled on purpose.

Someone who really loves you wants to share their time with you. She feels comfortable and calm while spending time with you. Someone who does it for their own benefit feels they are wasting their time, which is why they won’t always be available to you.

Be with the people who bring something into your life, not with those who take something away

Someone who truly loves you brings something into your life and someone who loves you only out of selfishness takes something out of your life. Those who act in their own interest run the risk of ending up living alone.

Life is full of great people, as well as those who have not yet woken up and do not feel what love and respect for others can give them. But you have the power to choose who you build relationships with. Don’t forget that the person who really values ​​you is giving yourself up without demanding anything from you. He gives, does not ask. He appreciates you, not destruction. Someone who truly loves you will not only say it, but also show it.