Signs That You Are Dating A Narcissist
For some reason, we feel a special attraction to narcissists even though they are not the best company.
Are you in love with the narcissist? Go through this list to find out.
They are unable to accept their mistakes
The narcissist has a hard time accepting that he is wrong and he always makes you feel like you are wrong instead of him. As much as he loves you, you will always feel that you are taking the hardest blows of everything… and that is true. Everyone else is to blame except them.
Jealousy never ends
The narcissist is jealous of everything he can’t get. Even the smallest details get your beloved narcissist in power when he sees you with someone else.
He does not accept that you have other interests and other important people in your life. His jealousy gets the relationship to its limits.
They dominate the conversation all the time
Conversations, like relationships, are giving and receiving. Does your partner give you space to express your own thoughts? Or does it just matter what he says, wants or thinks?
There is nothing that a narcissist likes more than listening to his own voice. The problem is not that you are not talking, but that you will never be able to express yourself.
They think they are too perfect compared to others
Beauty is often associated with narcissism. This does not mean that if someone is in love with a beautiful person, he is a narcissist. The narcissist may have a better self-image than he should have.
They usually give a complete and confident picture of themselves, but under the shell they have low self-esteem.
The narcissist believes he is intelligent while others are stupid
Does your partner make you feel like all your messages are wrong? Every time you talk to him, do you feel like your opinions are worthless?
If the answer is yes, I have bad news: you meet a narcissist.
It doesn’t matter if his IQ isn’t the highest or how successfully you prove he’s wrong. The relationship is going to be very exhausting because you are constantly belittled.
He is unable to show appreciation
When you give him a gift, he accepts it as if he deserved it and as if nothing was ever enough. Don’t expect to get praise for anything you do in front of him…
He makes you feel like everything you would do or give would be inadequate. Gradually, you begin to feel a lack of energy and the relationship becomes a burden.
If you let the relationship move on, you will become unhappy and you will feel that everything has been just a waste of time.
Their honesty is brutal
It is healthy to always be honest. That should be the least you expect. Lies and deception are signs that something is wrong with your relationship.
Problems arise when this honesty is meant to be offensive. If your partner tells you things in a very rude way and seems to enjoy your hurt, think about whether it’s healthy. Looks like he wants to hurt you just because he’s the way he is.
He will always remember your mistakes and forget your achievements
If you expect a narcissist to ever praise you for something you do well, forget it. That will not happen. Instead, you can expect every mistake to be maximized and criticism always present.
You will be severely convicted of even the slightest mistakes. If the person you love bothers to notice and only remembers bad things, you will never feel satisfied.
Narcissists do not change
Most people have the ability to change when they themselves decide to do so. The narcissist will never change because as he sees it for himself, he is perfect.
If you have something unfortunate, it is your problem and he wants you to feel that you are the one who is wrong. Don’t hold on to any hope that he will change for you because he won’t do that for anyone or anything.
